our home

needs a cleaning....

things i know for sure

That I am part....

Disco Queen - a little Jade Jagger and Diane von Furstenberg.  sexy in that slightly hippie free spirit way

Librarian - this is the strict side of me, the disciplined side, the OCD side

Good Wife - all i have to do is play into my Southern self and be the kind of woman who says, no matter what, i can make it work.  you  need me to cook, clean and design your home? i can do that

Rebel - going against the norm is a little bit scary

Seductress - i think there's a mistress in all of us.

things i know for sure

1.  cell phone holsters make my skin crawl

2.  if i ASK how i look, please don't say fine

3.  hair starts growing in funny places after you turn fifty and there's not much you can do about it

4.  Shoes always fit and not hurt

5.  fifty percent of the noise you make during sex is for them.  that's how much you love him

6.  where i put perfume is where i want to be kissed

7.  i'm the best friend you will ever need if i love you

where my mind goes sometimes....

a jellyfish lake and this they don't hurt you.  they just swim towards the sun, floating really slow and graceful like feathers.....


click here:

http://vimeo.com/23079092

and did you know that....

otters hold hands while they sleep

and you know what else....

one of you that get these emails, could say something? 

I'm cleaning and getting the place ready to cook sukiyaki for Gary's b'day dinner tomorrow night.  clean clean clean.  i've invited Stephanie but haven't heard if she'll be able to come and i've invited Daliah to come and spend the night.  She and Jamie can drink booze together.  fun times.

i turned the tv while cleaning and the Nate Berkus Show was on.   Usually it's boring to me but today, he visited Orah's home.  Ohh Mm Gee.

The property is absolutely gorgeous.  A lavender field and a beautiful teahouse.  And a really big old tree, all alone, with rocks to sit on, underneath it.  So peaceful.

Barbra's home

Oprah's tea house in California...

between Oprah's home and what i've seen of Barbra's home,  i don't know which one i like most.  

home should be your refuge.  surround yourself with beautiful things, not wealthy things.

hi there

yeah, i know it's been awhile since i REALLY wrote anything.  i've been doing much of nothing except cleaning and cooking and playing with Jme and Pookie.  sounds like a wonderful life, huh?  some days it is but other's it's not.  

jme still hasn't got an interview out of all the resumes he's been sending out.  i wish i could help him.  i know it must wear heavy on his mind, as it does mine.  he did mention that he really doesn't want to be a landlord so maybe we'll sell this place after all.  or if he gets a half-way decent paying job, we'll keep it and wait for the market to get better.  not sure if that's a good idea since we could be getting a rental income.  he said he doesn't want anyone living in our home.  i understand.

as you probably already know, my mom got an iphone and i am her trainer.  we have created a monster.  she text me all the time and now she knows how to take pictures.  she's very excited about it and loves that she can keep in touch with us a different way.  she hears from tiger all the time and calls him when he's on his way to work.  i'm happy for that.

i'm still missing my woman friends.  i have seen my pal, Alicia a couple times and Daliah too.  haven't heard from Daliah in a while so i will have to rattle her cage.  i miss these women.  then there's my Amykins.  I got spoiled seeing her every month for the last couple months before Don died.  i am trying to convince Jme that we need to go to Ventura for a few days and relax and visit.

i'm still looking for someone to give me a good, stylish haircut.  Kandee, the makeup artist is hooking up her blog friends with a free hair when you get a color.    Bethanie is offering a FREE haircut with any hair color service.

At Crew Salon located at 2930 Bristol Street, Suite A102 in Costa Mesa.

714-751-0111

I may have to make an appointment, have Jamie wait with me and then drive to Ventura.  Doesn't that sound like a great idea?

Oprah email

The best thing for being sad, replied Merlin, is to learn something.

T. H. White. 

 The idea here is not to divert the sadness, but to give it a context from life other than what is making you sad. Just as a ginger can lose its bitterness when baked in bread, sadness can be leavened by other life. When feeling the sharpness of being sad or hurt, it helps to take new things in. This pours the water of life on the fire of the heart. So when exhausted from expressing all that hurt, listen to music you’ve never heard of, or ask someone to tell you an old story from before your birth, or take a drive down a road near a ridge you’ve always meant to look out from. Look with your sad eyes on things new to you that will give you something to do with your sadness. Your sadness is the paint. You must find a canvas. " 

I hear so many of you saying you're sad to see the show leave. 

Instead of sadness, I hope you will channel the energy of hopefulness you received from the show in whatever form it gave to you.

pickles and pookie

trying to make sweet pickles

we shall see

and Pookie after his bath rolling around in the dirty laundry...

random

laptop lapdog

helllllll oh

rainy days make my head hurt

but a couple of things on my mind:

i don't care that our ex-governor had sex outside his marriage ten years ago.  what i hate is that he lied for the past ten years.  straight up lied

and why hasn't the clean up after the sunami in Japan been cleaned up yet?  same reason Louisiana hasn't been done?

i love my puppy because he makes me smile.  no matter how much extra work i have to do with our wood floors.  no matter how much hair i find on EVERYTHING.  if my Mom visits, she's gonna hate it

i made navy bean and ham soup and it was yummy!!

and finally, a Pookie update:

It's all about my monkey!

momma's cupcakes

these are the best warm, cold, two at a time, whatever

and here's how my puppy spends most of his day when he's on the couch

girl face time

alicia came over again this week.  it's so nice to see a girlfriend.  i'm glad that we can see each other.  it's nice to bounce stuff off someone you can trust.

so, alicia..... thank you so very much for coming out.  i know it's tough with your work schedule and everything going on in your life but i really appreciate and LOVE it.

google blog down since last evening? wtf

when something on the internet doesn't work, i get so pissed.  but's a different kind of pissed than for most things.  it's just a small, little irritating dig at something i have no idea how to fix, DOESN'T WORK or NOT THERE on the WORLD WIDE WEB!!!    yes, sorry, i'm yelling.  i never use caps.

anywayyyyyyy....

and here's some pictures i've sent to Mom - 

of her fat number one child

lol

and here's Don new urn.  i like it very much

my new fav song:

Bruno Mars, The Lazy Day song

i'm happiest in the sun

hello old friend

well it's been 9 days since i last blogged.  have i been so busy with exciting and fun things, that i haven't had time to write?  not so much.  but there are some highlights.....


one, I had face time with Alicia and Daliah.  separately but face time nonetheless.


we're getting to almost a year that Jme and i have been together TWENTY FOUR SEVEN.  Did ya hear me?  12 months 24/7.  seriously, how much can one woman endure.  i love him to pieces but i think this is asking a little too much.


maybe i should find a job to get some time away.  wait...... what did i just say?


erase that.
erase that immediately


i do think i am at my end of employment because now they want to know where i've applied.  so the hunt is on for jobs/companies that don't want to interview or hire me.  wish me some luck please


two, Don is not present every night in my dreams.  i'm not sad he's not there anymore.  i'm content that i remembered all those memories and now have put them in a special place in my mind.


my days still have a sprinkling of moments that i well up with tears but they aren't as devastating as before and that is okay.


three, i've texted and talked to Kas alot the last month.  i know she checks to see if i'm okay and i tell her that i am fine, which is partially true. enough so i don't feel like i'm lying.


four, and this is the best:


Kas put Mom on her at&t account this month and got her..... drum roll please... an iPhone.


funniest highlights....


she kept hanging up with her face
she said her phone was doing the hula
and when i briefly told her about the camera, she thought she was supposed to put her eye up to it to take a picture


i don't have to tell you i laughed each time until i thought i would wet myself.


but even funnier, when i told Kas just how Mom's education of the iPhone was going i'm sure she did wet herself and just didn't want to tell me.

dance of the Pookster