first, i have to do what I feel I have to do. there have been many times in my life that i should have made a "different" decision. i know that now. so NOW i have to follow my gut and my heart. i will have no regrets.
second, i will not do anything that could cause a write up or termination of visitation. nuff said.
third, because i can't control so many things in my life right now, i am giving up trying to fix it ALL
this is not to say that i "give" up but it means i don't let it consume me anymore.
i'm going to let it go.. and just breath more
stress is a dangerous emotion
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You have thought this through, all of it. Which is pleasing to me. You have the purest heart I have ever known, I encourage you to follow it.
Remind yourself that you are doing all you can. You are completely generous and kind. Take comfort in knowing that you are a wonderful sister, daughter, mother, wife and friend. Focus on what you can control. Take charge of what you can. Move forward and breathe. Stress will only hold you back from your ultimate goals.
I love you much and wish I could take your stress away. Lean on me. I am here.
what a great pep talk! a life coach speech if i've ever heard one and i'm saying that all in a good way with lots of love.
the whole "grabbing" of the boot straps is a hard concept for me unless i'm hit over the head with a frypan and the event requires immediate attention. i guess that would fall under the "stubborn" umbrella, huh? You and Jamie have been the island i run to when the weight gets to heavy in my head. there are no words to thank you............ and i will continue to be focus on being content and not think about fixin' everything and everyone. the sun is out, the sky is blue .......
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