Don's really sick.  Spoke with the SW today.  "I regret to inform you" are not words you want to hear over the phone from someone you don't know.  His liver is covered with tumors.  So many that a biopsy would be dangerous.  The colon is fine and more scans are scheduled.  He says he doesn't want us to come.  We sent money so that he can get toothpaste, soap, etc,  SW will look into getting those items out of the package Mom just sent.  Some CO told Don he couldn't get them.  Outrageous.  I didn't tell Mom anything only some to Kasey.  I don't know when to tell Alan,  Today's his birthday and his first daughter was born on Sunday.  How am I supposed to tell him?  Does he even want to know?

My head hurts and my eyes are swollen.